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Getting Your Child to Talk to You

Bridging the communications gap between parent and child.

If you have children in the house, especially teenagers, you know they can be a little reserved when it comes to talking to you about what’s on their minds.  That’s not a new thing.  But how do you get them to talk to you when the silent treatment seems to be the order of the day, everyday?  Now, more than ever, bridging the communications gap between parent and child is critical.  So how do you do it?

Dr. Jeff Menzise, Clinical Child Psychology Scholar

D.C. Approves Digital Driver’s Licenses

The ID can be shown to enter government buildings, to purchase liquor or to present to police officers during traffic stops.

(Washington, DC) — The District has become the latest to join the list of states approving digital driver’s licenses. City Council approved the measure allowing for digital licenses and photo IDs. Under the council’s actions, the District’s Department of Motor Vehicles has the authority to issue digital licenses that can be stored on a motorist’s smartphone or other mobile device. The ID can be shown to enter government buildings, to purchase liquor or to present to police officers during traffic stops. The DMV will be charged with developing plans for the digital IDs once the measure is signed into law.

 

 

 Jussie Smollett Trial Closing Arguments

The defense closed out their case yesterday.

(Chicago, IL) — Closing arguments are underway in the Jussie Smollett trial. The former “Empire” actor is charged with staging a racist and homophobic attack in Chicago in 2019. The defense closed out their case yesterday after Smollett concluded his testimony, in which he repeatedly denied that he was involved in planning the phony attack on himself with the Osundairo brothers. The pair testified last week that Smollett masterminded the attack as a publicity stunt.

Shopping For A Worthy Cause

The Beautiful Closet Boutique event it this Saturday December 11th.

Shop til you drop for A Cause.  It’s all about Girls’ Night Out By Shawn Yancy and the Giving Foundation for Women and Children.  They are hosting a Beautiful Closet Boutique this Saturday and the proceeds got to help children and families in need across the DMV.  My guest is Shawn Yancy –Founder and CEO of Girls’ Night Out by Shawn Yancy.

The Giving Foundation for Women and Children and Girls’ Night Out invite you to shop for a great cause at A Beautiful Closet Boutique Saturday, December 11th from 2pm to 6pm at the DC Wharf @ 20 District Square SW, DC.  Proceed will help provide new coats, toys and meals to children and families in need across the DMV.   For more information go here:

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COVID-19 Update

There’s new information about the new Omicron variant.

A lot of us are through with COVID, but from the looks of things, COVID is not through with us.  We are seeing a surge in Delta variant cases including 11-hundred deaths a day.  Also… some 200 children per day are getting sick.  That’s a 57% increase from last week.  There’s also new information about the new Omicron variant.

Dr. Reed Tuckson, Co-Founder, Black Coalition Against COVID-19

Dr. Yolandra Hancock, Pediatrician, Black Coalition Against COVID-19

Former DC Mayor Hospitalized

Gray served as Mayor from 2011-through-2015.

(Washington, DC) — D.C. Councilmember Vincent Gray is under the care of doctors after he experienced some health issues over the weekend. The former Mayor checked himself into the hospital for bronchitis but he also suffered a mild stroke. According to the Washington Post, the 79-year-old is not expected to attend the council session today where city leaders will discuss the possibility of renaming Wilson High School. Gray served as Mayor from 2011-through-2015.

Ward 7 Councilmember Vincent Gray

Ari Lennox Says “I Am Not Okay” After Recent Arrest Due To Racial Injustice

Ari Lennox shares some messages on Twitter following her arrest in Amsterdam.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor 

On November 29th, Ari Lennox was arrested by Amsterdam security for a “disturbance.” As previously reported by WHUR, Lennox accused the airline staff of racial discrimination and was then arrested.

Her manager, Justin LaMotte, released a statement on November 30th assuring that the singer was safe and appreciative of the support.

The singer opens up about her experience following the ordeal. On December 2nd she tweeted that she is safe and thankful for the prayers and love.

 

A couple of days later, she admits that her “only regret” would be her “reaction to the racism and discrimination,” that she experienced. She went on to express how KLM Royal Dutch Airlines “never cared to hear it from the jump” referring to her side of the story.

Lennox has not responded to the claims made by the police, being that she was held because she allegedly made threats before and during her arrest.

The R&B star appeared on Khalid’s latest mixtape on Dec. 3rd ‘Scenic Drive’.

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A Look Inside Eve’s Baby Shower

Eve shares glowing pictures of her baby shower!

Contributed by Lauren Taylor 

Congratulations are in order! Eve is expecting a bundle of joy. 

The joy is definitely radiating in the baby shower pictures shared by the star via Instagram. She was thrown this baby shower back in October. She and her husband  Maximillion Cooper are expecting their first child together. Max has children from a previous relationship. 

She gives us an inside look into her shower and thanks her family and friends for the special event. She captioned the picture saying “pic number 1 is me and my momma.”

 

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According to Essence, the rapper was struggling to conceive and decided to leave her co-host position on The Talk to focus on expanding her family. She did just that and announced the news of her pregnancy days before the premiere of the ABC series new drama Queens back in October.

The couple are expecting their new family member in February of 2022. Congrats Eve!!!

Sandra Bullock Responds To Criticism Of Her Adopting Black Children

On a new episode of Red Table Talk, Sandra Bullock, opens up about adopting two black children.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor

The topic has always been controversial, white parents adopting Black children. Being in the eye of the public when notable white celebrities decide to adopt Black children, they immediately deal with backlash and questions from society.  

It happens extremely often now as celebrities such as Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, Charlize Theron, Madonna, and more have adopted Black children. Sandra Bullock adopted two Black kids, her son Louis in 2010 and her daughter Laila in 2015, and opens up about doing so.

Appearing as a guest on the new episode of Red Table Talk, Bullock discusses her experiences with Louis and Laila. Co-Host Jada Pinkett-Smith asked Bullock,  “Have people ever been like, well Sandy why would you adopt two black children?” In response, Bullock said, “No one would say that to my face.”

According to Essence, Bullock says “I love who they are,” when referring to her kids. “Every day I get to see who they are. I am one of the lucky individuals that gets to be around my children all the time and see who get to grow up to be.”

During the episode, she shared it would be easier for people when approaching her family if she and her children shared the same skin color, “To say that I wish our skins matched, sometimes I do. Because then it would be easier on how people approach us.”

In reference to racism, Bullock said, “Sure. Yeah. A lot of it. Guess what? Not my problem. Your sickness is not my problem.”

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WHUR UNVEILS MURAL MARKING 50TH ANNIVERSARY

“We stand on the history and legacy of Howard University understanding our driving force is Howard’s motto of ‘Truth and Service’ and this mural showcases that commitment,” added Plater. Last month, the station’s legacy was featured as part of Macy’s Metro Center holiday window display. That display can be seen through December 13th at two windows at along 12th and G Streets, NW.

Washington, D.C. (Thursday, December 2, 2021) – 96.3 WHUR is marking 50 years of excellence in broadcasting and community service Friday, December 10th at 10:30 a.m. with a special mural unveiling outside Ben’s Chili Bowl at 1213 U Street, NW.

The radio station first hit the airwaves December 10, 1971 at 6pm. Five decades later, WHUR is highlighting its golden anniversary with a large mural depicting the many voices, faces, and images that have kept the station going strong for half a century. “It’s so fitting that this special WHUR mural is located outside the iconic Ben’s Chili Bowl, which has been a staple of the DMV community for decades,” said WHUR General Manager Sean Plater.

WHUR is owned by Howard University. The Washington Post gifted the radio station to Howard for $1 in 1971. Since its inception, WHUR has become a powerhouse in the broadcasting industry winning hundreds of local and national awards for its vital role of serving the community.

The mural will be located at ‘Ben Ali Way,’ adjacent to the famed restaurant. The unveiling, which will be broadcast live, will include a special ceremony and presentations from elected leaders across the region. It is one of a host of events the radio station has planned over the coming months. Additionally on Friday at 2 p.m. at Ben’s Chili Bowl, WHUR will honor 10 listeners who won the station’s Goldie Community’s Choice Award, highlighting the best organizations, businesses, and community leaders in DMV. The winners were chosen through on-line voting.

“We stand on the history and legacy of Howard University understanding our driving force is Howard’s motto of ‘Truth and Service’ and this mural showcases that commitment,” added Plater. Last month, the station’s legacy was featured as part of Macy’s Metro Center holiday window display. That display can be seen through December 13th at two windows at along 12th and G Streets, NW.

Showcasing Local Artists

The “Art On The Rise” event is taking place this Friday and Saturday

A local DC non-profit is showcasing artists in Wards 7 and 8.  It’s part of an initiative called Art On the Rise, an event designed to highlight and encourage the connection between peace-building, entrepreneurship, trauma and the arts.  My guest is Dionne Bussey-Reeder – CEO of the Far Southeast Family Strengthening Collaborative

The Far Southeast Family Strengthening Collaborative presents Art On the Rise, an event designed to highlight and encourage the connection between peace building, entrepreneurship, trauma and the arts Friday, December 10th and Saturday, December 11th at the Maple View Flats @ 2228 MLK Avenue, SE DC. For more information go here:

 

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Black Women and Self-Care: Physical and Mental Health

The myth of the strong black woman.

We’ve all heard the phrase… “The Strong Black Woman”.  Some have seen it as a compliment.  Others see it as a burden or even a banner to fly through the battle of life.  Acclaimed author Marita Golden has other thoughts about it in her new book… “The Strong Black Woman: How a Myth Endangers the Physical and Mental Health of Black Women.”

Marita Golden, Author

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Dr. Audrey Chapman, Psychologist/Relationship Expert

Jussie Smollett Takes The Stand In His Trial

Smollett is accused of lying to police, but claims he’s a real victim of a real crime.

(Chicago, IL) — Former “Empire” actor Jussie Smollett is taking the stand in his trial for allegedly staging a hate crime attack. Smollett said he had a sexual relationship with one of two Osundairo brothers who are key to the case. He added Abimbola Osundairo  also sold him drugs. Smollett is accused of lying to police, but claims he’s a real victim of a real crime. Prosecutors called two brothers to the stand last week who worked as extras on the show “Empire” before Smollett was written off. They testified they were paid to carry out a fake attack in Chicago.

Howard Student Tamia Thompson Receives White House Presidential Service Award

Howard student, Tamia Thompson, receives award from The White House for her community service.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor

After contributing over 176 hours of community service, Tamia Thompson receives the 2021 White House Presidential Service Award. 

She is a Howard University College of Arts and Sciences sophomore who puts in hours of work at several non-profit organizations like Whatsoever Is Good Inc., and the Zero Debt College Project. According to Howard Newsroom, Thompson also aides in one-on-one mentoring for 10-year-olds through college-aged students. This mentoring includes scholarship essay writing and scholarship strategy advice.

Monique Thompson, Ph.D., founder of Whatsoever is Good Inc., and the Zero Debt College Project says Tamia Thompson is their top leader and mentor.

“She helps others learn credible information about scholarships and dispel myths about needing to graduate top of their class or with perfect grades to avoid student loans.” The founder describes Tamia as a student who always does what is necessary. 

Tamia Thompson is from Dallas, Texas and majors in political science, minors in philosophy. What’s after undergrad for Tamia? She plans on becoming a civil rights attorney after attending law school. 

Thompson is also a published author. She released her book Thirteen in 2017 and is an executive director and co-founder of the Zero Debt College Project. She also managed two campaigns, one for the school board of trustees and the other being a mayoral campaign in Little Elm, Texas. 

In succeeding with both campaigns, Little Elm received their first Black mayor, and the Little Elm School District elected its first Black woman on the board of Trustees. 

Thompson says philanthropy is a huge part of her life. “Giving back to the community and advocating for marginalized groups are core values of mine.” She is also a member of the Model United Nations team and the NAACP.

Former ‘Real’ Host Tamera Mowry Reveals How Talk Show “Wasn’t A Safe Place”

Tamera Mowry explains how being a talk show host wasn’t the best place for her.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor 

Tamera Mowry has been in the entertainment industry for decades. She started off her career as a child gaining fame with her twin sister in the show, Sister Sister. She has learned a lot of lessons over the years and from her experiences as a co-host of The Real, she realized hosting a talk show is not for her. 

In an interview with Lewis Howes, Mowry described her feelings on being a co-host of The Real. “They will take what you say, put it out of context of who they think you are and that is what happened for years on that show,” she told Howes. “I will tell you this, being on a talk show and you can take it or leave it, it’s not a safe space. It’s not. I wish someone would have told me that because then I would have been prepared. I was not. I learned. Think of going to battle but you don’t know you’re going to battle.”

The star felt her experiences, though tough, were good for her. They allowed her to become a stronger person who would not let negative comments feed into insecurities that she already had. 

Rather than internalize comments she would remind herself that the people critiquing her did not know her personally and that she knows who she is. That it is ok not to be perfect, as reported by Essence.

“Don’t take anything personal if they don’t know me personally, that’s what I learned. And then, I had to do a lot of inner work,” she said. Although the talk show “wasn’t a safe space” for the actress, her time there made her who she is today.

Join Us: It’s Our 50th Anniversary!

96.3 WHUR is marking 50 years of excellence in broadcasting and community service Friday, December 10th at 10:30 a.m. with a special mural unveiling outside Ben’s Chili Bowl at 1213 U Street, NW.

The radio station first hit the airwaves December 10, 1971 at 6pm. Five decades later, WHUR is highlighting its golden anniversary with a large mural depicting the many voices, faces, and images that have kept the station going strong for half a century. “It’s so fitting that this special WHUR mural is located outside the iconic Ben’s Chili Bowl, which has been a staple of the DMV community for decades,” said WHUR General Manager Sean Plater.

And we have an entire weekend of events to celebrate the 50th Anniversary:

Friday, December 10:

Ben’s Chili Bowl (1213 U St. NW)  – 10am – 3pm:  A live broadcast of our Midday Show hosted by our Midday Love, Autumn Joi Live, and a special WHUR Mural Unveiling.  We will also present the “WHUR Community’s Choice Goldie Awards” winners with a special ceremony.

Special Daily Drum Broadcast on 96.3 WHUR – 6pm – 7pm: The “Daily Drum,” hosted by Harold Fisher, will broadcast at a special time with a number of WHUR family members to take a journey from the humble beginnings in 1971 to the present.

WHUR ‘Through The Years’ Music Retrospective on 96.3 WHUR – 7pm – 11pm: WHUR hosts, past and present will take us on a musical journey through the years and share some of their fondest memories of their time here at WHUR.

70’s at 7 hosted by Joe Gorham

80’s at 8 hosted by Mansy Pullen

90’s at 9 hosted by John Monds

2000’s at 10 hosted by Smokin’ Tony Richards

 

Saturday, December 11:

WHUR 19th Annual “Children’s Toy Drive” @ The Shops at Iverson (3737 Branch Ave, Hillcrest Heights, MD) – 12pm – 4pm: Join the WHUR Family at the Shops at Iverson as we continue our “Season of Giving” by collecting as many unwrapped toys as possible for children in the DMV area for the holiday season.

HUR at 50 Birthday Blend by DJ Herb on 96.3 WHUR – 4pm – 5pm:  DJ Herb will dig in the crates and provide an hour-long WHUR 50th Anniversary mix of music from 1971 to the present.

HUR at 50 Virtual Music Celebration on WHUR.com, Facebook Live and Youtube Live – 8pm: A Virtual Concert celebrating WHUR’s 50th Anniversary starring SuCh, Kevin Ross, Kenny Lattimore, Conya Doss, Robert Glasper, Eric Roberson, Maxwell, Chante Moore and more!

 

The Writer of ‘Girls Trip’ Releases New Comedy Series ‘Harlem’ on Amazon

Tracy Oliver creates new hit series ‘Harlem’ and it’s out now on Amazon Prime.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor 

Tracy Oliver, also known as the first Black woman to write a film that grossed over $100 million, is at it yet again. Written, directed, and produced by Oliver, the new Amazon series Harlem charms its audience.

The show follows four women in the big city balancing work, love, and life in their 30-something’s. Meagan Good stars as Camille, an adjunct anthropology professor, Jerrie Johnson, as Tye the tech-wiz who’s developing a queer dating app, Grace Byers playing Quinn a trust-fund fashion designer, and Shoniqua Shandai as Angie a sex-positive singer and actress.

Good, 40, praised the diversity and relatability of the characters, “They’re just not monolithic…you see yourself in every one of these characters,” as reported by Black Enterprise.

Ukonwa Ojo, the chief marketing officer at Prime Video and Amazon Studios, expresses her thoughts on the show. “In bringing this show to life through our marketing we thought, ‘What could be better than honoring many of the inspirational women entrepreneurs who built their businesses in Harlem, or are closely connected to the community?’ That’s how this exciting activation, featuring some amazing entrepreneurs and artists, as well as activities and conversations, came to be. And just like in the show, it’s not just all about business! We wanted to create a space that celebrates the heritage of the community and that lets residents, as well as those just a subway ride away, immerse themselves in a bit of culture and fun.”

The 10 episode season of Harlem now streaming on Amazon Prime.

 

Keeping Our Kids Healthy

Action For Healthy Kids supplys tools and resources needed to support healthier kids.

We’re are helping to educate parents and the public about various issues impacting our kids in the wake of the pandemic.  My guest this morning is Heidi Milby – Director of Programs and Field Operations for Action for Healthy Kids

Action for Healthy Kids brings together parents and educator to equip them with the tools and resources they need to support happier, healthier kids. For more information go here: 

 

Tune in to Taking it to the Streets, weekday mornings at 6:15, 7:08 and 8:40 on the Steve Harvey Morning Show on 96.3 WHUR.

Follow me on facebook and twitter at @bobbygailes for updates and to stay connected.

 

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HUR@50 Virtual Music Concert

HUR at 50 Virtual Music Celebration on WHUR.com, Facebook Live and Youtube Live – Saturday, December 11 @ 8pm: A Virtual Concert celebrating WHUR’s 50th Anniversary starring SuCh, Kevin Ross, Kenny Lattimore, Conya Doss, Robert Glasper, Eric Roberson, Maxwell, Chante Moore and more!

Workplace Burnout

How do take a break from work burnout, mind, body and spirit without quitting your job?

Are you tired of work?  Worn out?  Burned out?  Do you really need a break?  But don’t know how to take one?  2021 may have found you doing more on the job because of the changes brought on by the pandemic in 2020.  So much pressure to do more with less and it’s finally hitting you.  What do you do about it?  How do take a break from work burnout, mind, body and spirit without quitting your job?

Dr. Roz Aker-Black, Clinical Psychologist

Omicron COVID Cases Found in Maryland

Maryland Governor Larry Hogan announced this afternoon

Maryland Governor Larry Hogan announced this afternoon that three cases of the omicron variant of the coronavirus have been found in the state.  The cases have been found in the Baltimore area. Two of the cases are from the same household.  One of the people in that household recently traveled from South Africa.  The third case is unrelated to the first two.

Maryland Governor Larry Hogan

 

Suspected School Shooter’s Parents are Missing

Prosecutor Charging Accused Michigan Shooter’s Parents

(Oxford, MI) — The FBI and U.S. Marshal Service are searching for the parents of the Michigan school shooting suspect.   Police in Oakland County, Michigan began searching for James and Jennifer Crumbley just hours before they were to make themselves available once charges were announced this morning. Court documents show 15-year-old Ethan Crumbley’s parents are facing four counts of involuntary manslaughter. Crumbley’s father legally bought the weapon used in the shooting on Black Friday. The teen is facing charges as an adult for allegedly killing four students and injuring seven other individuals at Oxford High, north of Detroit.

Oakland County prosecutor Karen McDonald addresses the media in her office, Friday, Dec. 3, 2021, in Pontiac, Mich. McDonald filed involuntary manslaughter charges against Jennifer and James Crumbley, the parents of 15-year-old Ethan Crumbley, who is accused of killing four students at a Michigan high school. McDonald says the gun used in the shootings at Oxford High School was purchased by James Crumbley a week ago and given to the boy.

Hear The Back Stories To the Back Stories

Let’s take a moment to go way back in time. Back to WHUR’s beginnings. You’re gonna love all of these stories! Hear from WHUR’s GM, Sean Plater. The Queen of Inspiration every Sunday, Jacquie Gales-Webb. Host of the Weekend Quiet Storm, Mansy Pullen. Caribbean Rythyms, John Blake. Daily Drum producer, and production engineer, Bobby Adams. Check it out:

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1O7IIQBF6KU

Hulu Releases New Documentary ‘Astroworld: Concert From Hell’

Hulu releases and quickly removes news special regarding Astroworld tragedy.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor

Hulu with a “post and delete.” On Wednesday, the streaming services released and subsequently removed a news special surrounding the tragic incidents that occurred only one month ago at the Astroworld Festival.

The series was titled Astroworld: Concert From Hell, it seemed to have only one episode and the description read, “Travis Scott’s Astroworld Festival was supposed to be the concert of a lifetime. But it turned into a tragic nightmare. A minute-by-minute look at what happened in the crowd, the young victims who were killed, and what happens next.”

Many people believed that releasing this news special so soon, amidst people mourning and lawsuits are still in effect wasn’t the best idea. People reacted on social media voicing their opinions, one viral tweet from a user said, “Hulu making a documentary about Astroworld is in poor taste all around. People are still burying their loved ones. The legal cases haven’t even started. Great documentaries are done when all the facts are laid out. Not enough time has passed to fully discuss this.”

The Twitter user was under the impression the Hulu produced the special, which they in fact did not. According to Variety, a Hulu representative cleared the air on why the program was removed. “Astroworld: Concert From Hell” was removed from the service because it was not properly branded — the way it was presented and promoted made it look like the feature was a Hulu original, which it isn’t.” The representative did not mention the backlash from users as a reasoning for the removal.

Some people feel as though the program was necessary for some to gain closure over the incident.

The program was produced by KTRK, which is owned by ABC and operates locally in Houston. The original news special aired on November 20th and you can watch it here.

World’s First Living Robots Are Now Able to Reproduce

Xenobots are now able to reproduce, but not in the way that you think.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor

The robot life forms known as xenobots are now able to reproduce, but not in the way you think. These are not your typical ‘Wal E’ type of robots. They aren’t made out of metal but rather from the scraped living cells of frog embryos that were left to incubate.

Josh Bongard, robotics expert and computer science professor at the University of Vermont is the lead author of the study, says “Most people think of robots as made of metals and ceramics but it’s not so much what a robot is made from but what it does, which is act on its own on behalf of people,” CNN reported. The xenobots do just that.

How do these robots reproduce? The robots do not have sex in the way that animals do, nor do they reproduce in the way plants do. The parent xenobots are c-shaped robots that push loose stem cells together into piles which can mature into offspring resembling the parent. This is a new way to reproduce that scientist haven’t seen before, and is referred to as the kinetic reproduction process.

“Frogs have a way of reproducing that they normally use but when you … liberate (the cells) from the rest of the embryo and you give them a chance to figure out how to be in a new environment, not only do they figure out a new way to move, but they also figure out apparently a new way to reproduce,” says Michael Levin, a professor of biology and director of the Allen Discovery Center at Tufts University who was co-lead author of the new research.

The xenobots were first shown off in 2020. They are only 0.04 inches wide but experiments show that these robots can work together in groups, self-heal and move around on their own.

As of right now these robots can really do much for people, but with the ever so advancing technology I’m sure they’ll be able to soon.

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Afro Newspaper GM Edgar Brookins Dead at 74

Longtime Journalist Edgar Brookins dies at the age of 74 after long battle with prostate cancer.

Washington, D.C. (December 2, 2021) – Edgar Brookins, affectionately called Mr. D.C., died Wednesday at Walter Reed Medical Center in Bethesda, Maryland after a long bout with prostate cancer.  The General Manager of the Washington Afro American Newspaper, Brookins was a staple of the DMV community and worked at the Afro for over three decades.

It is with a heavy heart that we share the news of the passing of our beloved father, grandfather, uncle, cousin, veteran, Omega man, advocate, mentor, faithful soldier and servant- Edgar Allen Brookins.  Brookins died peacefully on December 1, 2021.  Our dear patriarch passed after a long and valiant fight of prostate cancer to which he did not allow to become a debilitating factor in life, but actually pushed him towards more work and advocacy,” his son Lt. Colonel Dexter Brookins, PhD said on behalf of the family.

In addition to being a longtime journalist, Brookins was an active member in the community.  he served proudly as a member of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity.   “After his cancer diagnosis, Brookins worked to raise awareness about Black men getting prostate examinations starting at the age of 45.   Brookins became a champion for Lupus awareness after the passing of hisdaughter Ciera, at the age of 25, in December 2016.  He was the founder and Chief Executive Officer of the Ciera Brookins Lupus Educational Foundation, LLC. “Our father has taught us so much and left a lasting legacy, not only for our family but for the many people and communities he has touched and influenced over the year.”

Funeral services for Brookins are pending.

LinkedIn, Social Media and the Modern Job Search

What is the difference between a winning and a losing Linkedin page?

It wasn’t too long ago that, when looking for a new job, you only needed to submit your resume with references.  But the internet and social media have changed the game forever. One of the biggest players is Linkedin.  Depending on the job… you may not be able to get the without it.  But what is the difference between a winning and a losing Linkedin page?

Andrew McCaskill, Career Expert & Clobal Communications, LinkedIn

Megan Thee Stallion Cancels Houston Show ‘Out Of Respect’ For Astroworld Victims

Megan Thee Stallion cancels her Houston show because “Houston is still healing.”

Contributed by Lauren Taylor 

Houston, Texas is left mourning the tragedies that occurred one month ago at the Astroworld Festival, ten lives were lost. Megan Thee Stallion has decided to cancel her upcoming concert there in the wake of these tragedies.

The Houston native said “out of respect for the lives lost in Houston earlier this month, I have decided to cancel my show at 713 Music Hall on Dec 3rd.”

According to Billboard, last month the rapper was extremely excited to perform at the grand opening of 713 Music Hall. “It’s always special to come back home and perform in front of my OG hotties,I can’t wait to take the stage and celebrate the grand opening of 713 Music Hall — it’s going to be unforgettable!”

This concert was also intended to be a celebratory event for Megan, she will be receiving her bachelor’s degree in health administration from Texas Southern University on Dec. 11th.

Despite her excitement, she felt as though her hometown was healing and needed to grieve.

She went on to say, “Houston is still healing, and it’s important that our community be given the appropriate time to grieve. My heart goes out to all the families that are suffering during this difficult time,” Variety reported.

Former WFT Top Pick Becomes Author

The book will come out next summer.

(Undated) — Former Washington Football Team quarterback Robert Griffin-the third is about to release a new book. It’s titled ‘Surviving Washington’ and he said it’ll give readers a better idea of what he calls a toxic culture in D.C. Griffin said that everyone will also learn about how the team mismanaged his season-ending injury during his rookie season. The book will come out next summer.

Biden Unveils COVID Winter Strategy

The President also announced an acceleration of U.S. efforts to push more vaccines around the world.

(Bethesda, MD) — President Biden is unveiling his administration’s COVID winter strategy. Speaking at the NIH, Biden said the situation in the U.S. is greatly improved compared to a year ago. He said roughly 72-percent of Americans will be fully vaccinated by Christmas. Biden cited growing concerns about the new Omicron variant and warned things could take another turn for the worse this winter. He also made another big pitch for full vaccinations and booster shots.

Biden argued vaccines and boosters are free and easy to find. The COVID winter strategy includes tightening international travel rules and greatly expanding free at-home tests. Mask requirements for U.S. domestic and international travel will be extended to mid-March. That includes trains and commuter rails. The President also announced an acceleration of U.S. efforts to push more vaccines around the world. He noted COVID is an ongoing, global pandemic that requires a global response.

Legendary Music Exec. Clarence Avant’s Wife Murdered During Home Invasion

Jacqueline Avant, wife of Clarence Avant, was shot and killed at their home early Wednesday.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor 

Jacqueline Avant, wife of Music Executive Clarence Avant, was fatally shot in their Beverly Hills home early Wednesday.

According to the Los Angeles Times, officers responded to a shooting around 2:30 a.m., when they arrived on the scene they found Avant, 81, with a gunshot wound. Chief Mark Stainbrook said she was taken to the Cedars-Sinai Hospital where she later passed away during a news conference Wednesday.

Stainbrook does not know all the details as of yet but he does believe that the attack wasn’t random. “The motives in this case are still unknown, and we’re investigating all possible motives, we will not speculate on anything that’s out there, including if this was a robbery attempt or not, ” said the chief.

He went on to confirm that both Clarence Avant and a security were  present at the time of the shooting. They aren’t sure if anything was taken from the home but there are security cameras that will be able to provide evidence.

Jacqueline Avant was a known philanthropist in the L.A. area. Over the decades she contributed to the UCLA International Student Center and the South Central Community Child Care Center.

She married her husband Clarence Avant, legendary music executive who was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame earlier this year, in 1967.

During the news conference Stainbrook read a statement shared by the Avant Family, reported by CNN. “Jacqueline was an amazing woman, wife, mother, philanthropist, and a 55-year resident of Beverly Hills, who has made an immeasurable positive contribution and impact on the arts community,” said Stainbrook. “She will be missed by her family, friends, and all of the people she has helped throughout her amazing life.

Those all over LA mourn the loss of the leader of the community, Jacqueline Avant.  Sending love to her friends and family during this incredibly challenging time.

Atlanta Mayoral Candidate Calls Out TI For Spreading Misinformation

Felicia Moore is calling out T.I. saying he spread misinformation that she said caused her to lose a run-off election to City Councilmember Andre Dickens on November 30th.

T.I. had shared a news article that said Moore wanted to tighten restrictions on recording studios. “Excuse me Mrs @feliciamooreatl but… Our Culture Runs This Town Ma’am!!” wrote T.I. on IG. “These studios (and the creatives that work in em) have laid [the] foundation and paved ways to create opportunities for this city like nothing else could.”

“They lied then, saying I wanted to close all recording studios,” Felicia Moore told TMZ about T.I. and Issac Hayes III, who she also blamed for her defeat. “The legislation would have never closed anything. It would only be for new ones.”

Moore told TMZ that T.I. also put out information saying she wanted to close strip clubs and says she hadn’t discussed stripclubs since the general election. Prior to the election T.I. posted a news headline which read: “Woman Running For Atlanta Mayor Promises To CLOSE ALL STRIP CLUBS!!!” His caption for the Instagram post read, “Respectfully of course. GO VOTE TOMORROW!! @andre4atlanta #byefelicia [waving hand emoji].”

Do you think celebrities have the power to sway voters?

‘Zoom-Bombers’ Hijacked School Board Meeting From Black Superintendent, Played Racist Slur

‘Zoom-Bombers’ Hijacked School Board Meeting From Black Superintendent, Played Looped Recording Of Racist Slur

Police in Enumclaw, Washington are investigating a possible hate crime after two people on Zoom interrupted a school board meeting with a racist slur.
As Superintendent Dr. Shaun Carey, who is Black, was delivering a report, two individuals on the Zoom virtual meeting platform began playing a looped recording of a racist slur.
District officials said one of the individuals displayed a photo of George Floyd and the other appeared to be “an elderly white male.”
District officials released a statement saying in part, “Let it be clear, hate has no home here.”
Police do not have any suspects in custody.

Raekwon Reveals RZA Rejected A Leonardo DiCaprio Wu-Tang Biopic

In an excerpt from his memoir, “From Staircase To Stage: The Story Of Raekwon And Wu-Tang Clan,” Reakwon discussed a Wu-Tang biopic he wanted to make with Leonardo DiCaprio, who is a big Wu-Tang fan.

RZA had other plans for a scripted TV bio-series but Raekwon wasn’t feeling it, “I was against the deal because I didn’t like the terms, the money, any of it,” Raekwon said of RZA’s idea.

Inspired by the success of NWA’s Straight Outta Compton Raekwon said, “It made no sense to me to sell our story for a TV series where nobody would walk away with real money, everybody except RZA, that is, because he was getting more on the deal — as an executive producer, writer, creator, composer, and I’m sure a few other ways we’ll never know about.”

Raekwon and RZA took three meetings with Leo about the movie, however Raekwon says RZA had no intention of working with DiCaprio, leading them to argue. Raekwon says that he “didn’t spazz” to hard on RZA but knew his Hollywood relationships were more important than his relationships with Wu-Tang.

Do you think the Wu-Tang story would’ve been better as a movie?

Alicia Keys Teases New Songs At Small Show Ahead Of Art Basel

Alicia shared some sounds from her upcoming release, “KEYS” at a small show ahad of the opening of Art Basel on Wednesday evening (December 1).

Keys guided attendees through a ten-minute meditation and then asked them to choose between the piano versions of her songs or the more produced versions.

“I say that’s even,” Keys said after playing portions of “Is it Insane,” which will be released on December 10th.

There will be two versions of Alicia’s album, one called “Originals” which will feature more of her classical piano playing the other called “Unlocked” will be produced by Mike WILL Made-It.

When it comes to Alicia’s music, are you a fan of her piano playing or a more produced sound?

Burger King To Eliminate Some Menu Items

Burger King is getting ready to eliminate some menu items as a way to expedite their drive-thru times.
By eliminating some items the thought is it will speed up the decision making of customers in the drive thru.
BK has not said which items will be eliminated.
Which Burger King item do you hope they don’t get rid of? Which item could you do away with?

How To Assemble a Charcuterie Board Like a Pro Food Stylist

The holidays are upon us and it is time to entertain guests.
Every good gathering needs a charcuterie board. So how do you create the perfect one?
Here are some tips
Be creative with your surface. It doesn’t have to be a wooden board.
Pick a star ingredient. This is the focal point of the board. Could be a cheese or a dip.
Balance your flavors.
Don’t cut up your cheeses. Keeping your cheeses mostly whole preserves the flavor longer.
Variety.
Dress up the table that you are placing the charcuterie board on.

What is your ‘go-to’ food or beverage when entertaining guests?

Man Testifies That Jussie Smollett Paid Him To “Fake Beat Him Up”

Abel Osundairo, one of the two brothers involved in the Jussie Smollett case took the stand.
Abel said Jussie paid them off to pull off a fake attack on him.
Jussie is facing six counts of disorderly conduct and is accused of lying to the police in the 2019 incident.
Prosecutors asked Abel why did he agree to the plan.
He said he felt like he owed Jussie because Jussie got him stand-in roles on Empire and he thought Jussie could further his acting career.

Meghan Markle Wins Latest Stage of Privacy Dispute With Publisher

Meghan Markle has won the latest round in her long-running privacy lawsuit against a newspaper publisher in London.
The newspaper published portions of a letter she wrote to her estranged father.
The Court of Appeal in London ruled that publishing the letter was unlawful and breached her privacy.
The senior judge ruled, the Duchess had a reasonable expectation of privacy in the contents of the letter. Those contents were personal, private and not matters of legitimate public interest.
Meghan said about the ruling, while this win is precedent-setting, what matters most is that we are now collectively brave enough to reshape a tabloid industry that conditions people to be cruel and profits from the lies and pain that they create.
Do you read tabloid magazines and/or tabloid blogs? Why or why not?

Gabrielle Union To Star in ‘Facts of Life” Live Reenactment

Gabrielle Union to play ‘Tootie’ in ‘Facts of Life’ live reenactment on ABC.

Contributed by Lauren Taylor 

Gabrielle Union is set to play Tootie Ramsey in the live reenactment of The Facts of Life sitcom. During the original airing in the 70’s Tootie was played by Kim Fields.  Fields landed the role when she was just 10 years old and stayed on for the nine season long run.

Union shared her excitement for the project via her instagram story, “‘Tootie’ was EVERYTHING to Black girls in my generation @kimfieldsofficial is an ICON living. I am honored to honor her and just on of the many legendary characters she has brought to life.”

Joining her live will be Jennifer Aniston playing Blair Warner, Kathryn Hahn playing Jo Polniaczek and Allison Tolman playing Natalie Green.

The Facts of Life was a spinoff of Diff’rent Strokes that will also be reenacted live on the same night on ABC. In this you will see Kevin Hart as Arnold Jackson, and Damon Wayans as Willis. These characters were originally portrayed by Gary Coleman and Todd Bridges.

Both reenactments of The Facts Of Life and Diff’rent Strokes will air on ABC Tuesday, December 7th at 8 p.m. EST.

Helping Howard University Dental Students

The National Dental Associations Scholarship Gala is December 11th

Smile and get ready for an amazing evening with the National Dental Association.  The NDA is preparing for their 98th Presidential Inauguration and Scholarship set for December 11th at the National Museum of African American History and Culture.  My guest is Dr. Hazel Harper – Past President of the National Dental Association

The NDA is preparing for their 98th Presidential Inauguration and Scholarship set for December 11th from 7pm to 11pm at the National Museum of African American History and Culture.  For more information go here:

 

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Stacey Abrams Plans to Run for Georgia Governor Again

Democrat Stacey Abrams is making another run for Georgia Governor putting in place a likely rematch with incumbent GOP Governor Brian Kemp

(Wednesday, December 1, 2021) – Stacey Abrams is launching a 2nd campaign to run for governor of Georgia in 2022.  The democratic voting rights activist made the announcement Wednesday via video saying “opportunity and success in Georgia shouldn’t be determined by background or access to power.”

Abrams’ announcement means another likely rematch with incumbent Republican Governor Brian Kemp.  Their 2018 contest was a nail biter race that drew national attention and was dominated by allegations of voter suppression.

Abrams said she would provide leadership that knows how to do the job, leadership that doesn’t take credit without taking responsibility, leadership that understands the true pain that folks are feeling and has real plans.  That’s the job of governor, to fight for one Georgia, our Georgia.”

Tiffany Haddish Training With Flo-Jo’s Husband

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Tiffany Haddish is taking her portrayal of track star Florence Griffith Joyner seriously.
Haddish has just revealed that she’s preparing for the role by training with Flo-Jo’s husband, Al Joyner to get into the perfect shape for the role.
“Some days it’s really strenuous,” said Haddish about the training. “He’s definitely taught me a lot.”
Tiffany has voiced her dedication to getting the Flo-Jo biopic right in the past and this revelation proves her point. Right now there’s no release date for the film.
Do you remember Flo-Jo? In your eyes, what did Flo-Jo do for track and field?

Jazmine Sullivan Going on Tour

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Get your outfits ready, Jazmine Sullivan is hitting the road.
The singer is going on tour to support her Heaux Tales album.
The North American leg of the tour will begin in February.
Things will wrap up in Chi-town in March.
Have you ever seen Jazmine Sullivan perform live? What are your top three concerts?

4th Teen dies from Michigan School Shooting

17-year-old boy is the latest person to die following yesterday’s shooting at a Michigan high school.

(Wednesday, December 1, 2021) – The death toll from Tuesday’s shooting at Oxford High School in Michigan has risen to four.  A 17-year-old died today of injuries at McLaren Hospital in Pontiac, Michigan.

Authorities are still trying to piece together a motive for why the alleged shooter, a 15-year-old student, opened fire on his classmates killing four and injuring seven others.  The dead youth are identified at 17-year-old Justin Shilling, 14-year-old Hana St. Juliana, 17-year-old Madisyn Baldwin, and 16-year-old Tate Myre.

The suspected gunman has not yet been identified.  Police say the gun used in the shooting was apparently purchased by the boy’s father just days ago.  It is still not clear how the boy got his hands on the weapon.

Halle Berry, Netflix Sign a New Deal

Fresh off the success of her film Bruised, Halle Berry has signed a multi-picture deal with Netflix.
Under the deal, Halle will continue to produce and star in films for the streaming platform.
Berry’s flick Bruised has hit the number one spot on the Netflix chart and number two on the Global English Film List.
Have you had a chance to watch Bruised? What are you streaming on Netflix these days?

Cardi B Becomes First Female Rapper With Multiple Diamond Records

Congratulations to Cardi B for becoming the first female rapper to achieve diamond status for two singles.

The Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) announced on Monday (November 29) that Cardi’s song with Maroon 5, “Girls Like You” had sold over 10 million units in the United States this week.

Her song, “Bodak Yellow” reached diamond status earlier this year. Cardi took to Twitter to thank Maroon 5 writing, “Wow I got two Diamond records! Thank you sooo much [Maroon 5] for including me on this song and this is the song I cater to my daughter every time I perform it.”

Cardi is the first female rapper to receive the honor and she’s the third female to ever reach multi-diamond status. Cardi follows Lady Gaga who also has two diamond records and Katy Perry who has three.

Which one of Cardi’s diamond records is your favorite? “Girls Like You” or “Bodak Yellow?”

Kim Kardashian, Kanye West And Pharrell Williams Unite At Louis Vuitton Show To Celebrate Virgil Abloh

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West reunited at the Louis Vuitton show in Miami in honor of their mutual friend, Virgil Abloh.

The estranged couple sat on the front row with their nine-year-old daughter, North. Also in attendance was Pharrell Williams who was seen saluting a tall statue of Abloh which was positioned beside the venue. Rihanna and A$AP Rocky were also seen sitting in the audience.

During the Spring/Summer fashion show, some of Virgil’s last pieces were featured. The theme of the show was a “return to childhood wonderment.”

80 designs were featured during the show which included Kid Cudi modeling some of the designs, including fish backpacks, neon two-pieces, and collegiate jumpers.

Do you think Kim and Kanye will get back together or do you think Kim has fallen for Pete Davidson?

Quiet Storm: Melodies, Moods & Mixes of Melvin Lindsey [NBC4 Special]

Decades after the creation of the show and Lindsey’s death of AIDS, his legacy lives on in D.C. and beyond

On a Sunday night in May 1976, a slow jam revolution kicked-off at WHUR-FM.  The music genius of a Howard University junior, Melvin Lindsey, filled the airwaves and created the blueprint for a new music format at radio stations across the world, “The Quiet Storm.”

See Parts II and III here.